M = Modesty
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| I actually like the one on the left more. |
I get extremely uncomfortable when I wear v-neck shirts. And not because I'm afraid something will show, because you have to have something to show it. And I ain't got nothin'. I've just always been used to crew neck shirts. That sounds lame.
I also was extremely uncomfortable when I wore a bikini on my honeymoon. I suppose I thought, "I've done the deed, I can wear one now." But that was most definitely the last time because my stomach does not look like it did 5 years ago.
Recently, I've noticed more and more LDS girls/women wearing bikinis. And by all means, they have the choice/freedom too. I'm just not quite sure where the standards went. Modesty was always a major point my teachers taught growing up.
In Primary a few months back, we were learning about our bodies being Temples. I have (and sorta still do) had a desire to get a tattoo or two or three but I know we're not supposed to. We've heard the analogy time and time again; would you paint graffiti on the walls of the Temple? No. Well, then we don't get tattoos.
Same goes for bikinis. Do they leave the Temple doors open so anyone who wants, can sneak a peak? No. Then we shouldn't wear things that don't leave anything to the imagination.
And sometimes...we need to leave things to the imagination.