About two weeks ago, LaVor asked if I was still planning on doing the walk. Fundraising had hit a major plateau, I wasn't motivated to train, and was feeling pretty "blah" overall. He got out of the shower one night and said, "So I was thinking..." and presented a plan on how I could get more donations.
With a plan in place, and an especially supportive hubby, I started walking again and have made great strides (no pun intended).
LaVor was planning a visit to the Bay Area last weekend and suggested I join him, so I could stand out with my sign and hopefully get a few more donations.
...a few more.
I made about $30 in the first hour or so that I stood out at our local Farmer's Market. I was excited and hoped for at least $70 more at my second spot.
It happened to be an extremely hot day, so I grabbed a couple bottles of water, my sign, and set up shop in the exact same spot that I've used for years.
Literally, about thirty seconds after I got there, a gentleman came up from behind me and said, "I think you dropped this." I didn't drop anything but he kindly handed me $5.00.
After about three hours of standing out, I came home to find that I had earned an additional $130. I could not believe it! I have to write down a few of the experiences I had, as they all really touched me.
-One gentleman saw me from across the street and as he was coming at me, I immediately recognized him. He said, "Where have you been?!" I told him we recently moved out of the area but that I thought of him often. He has donated every year that I've stood out with my sign and it meant so much to me that he wondered why I wasn't out this year.
-Another man walking by pulled out his cellphone to show me the pink ribbon cover he had on it. His mother was a breast cancer survivor but ended up losing her life to another disease.
-There's a bar across the street from where I stand and in the past, people have come out for a smoke, saw me, walked over, gave me $1, then went back to smoking or drinking. This time, a man walked out of the bar, walked straight over to me, handed me $10, and turned right back around and went straight into the bar. He also gave me the updated score of the A's game.
-After about an hour of standing out, and despite drinking lots of water, I started feeling a little faint (a familiar feeling, unfortunately) so rather than create a scene, I plopped down on a bench and took a little break. Before I knew it, a patron from the nearby restaurant was standing in front of me with a full glass of ice cold water and a donation. She said, "I've been watching you this entire time and thought you could use this." She continued in saying, "I have many friends who have suffered from breast cancer and I appreciate all that you're doing!" I almost started to cry because I appreciated what SHE was doing.
-Even when I was sitting on the bench, with my sign upside down and hard to read, people would still turn their head to see what it said and donate.
There's always funny things that happen, too. Like the guys who asked me if I was going to use their $1 for crack and if I put Vaseline on my teeth to make them shiny, or the ex-Raider who sat by me for two hours and told me his life story, or the man who pretended to honk a pair of hooters as he went by with his wife in the driver seat.
I love the honks, waves, smiles, inspiring stories. But I especially love the kindness that I get to witness. Most of these people don't know me but they are willing to hand me a $20 bill to support those affected by breast cancer.
While I love being able to walk, and I might get a tad annoying when it comes to asking for money, I'm not doing it for me. I'm doing it to help those that are battling this disease. And it's with the help of amazing people I've been able to meet, while collecting donations, that hopes and dreams are able to come true.