We were ready for a break from school, schedules, lunch packing and homework. But it didn't take long for us to realize that we need structure and schedules to stay sane :) Staying up until 10:00 every night turned out to not be so fun.
But we had fun in other ways! We went to the library, park, ran errands, saw "Boss Baby", visited the dentist & allergist, ate our way through the mall, and played outside. But the real treat was a quick and impromptu trip to Disneyland!
We wanted it to be a surprise so we didn't tell anyone, including our boys. They just knew we were going somewhere. We stocked up on treats, packed the car, and were on our way Thursday morning. We made one pit stop in Coalinga for lunch and told The Lime that was our trip...going out to lunch :) He didn't think that was too funny.
The Lime refuses to sleep on car rides, for whatever reason, but Doodlebug was out within minutes of getting back on the road after lunch. The drive was uneventful until we got into Los Angeles and our remaining 30 minute drive turned into an hour and a half. Super fun!
As we approached Disneyland, The Lime read Disneyland Drive on the freeway signs. We told him we were going to Mexico so he needed to wave as we drove by and maybe he'd see the top of the Matterhorn. He didn't like that one, either. But he did like when we got off the freeway at Disneyland Drive and he figured out where we were going.
The hotel situation was a doozy, which included flying creatures, lots of hair, and a new room. To avoid paying any fees, we gutted it out for the first night and cut our trip short by a day so we could get the heck out of dodge. But it was super close to the park so we didn't have to pay the $20 parking garage fee, which was the one positive thing I'm taking from that situation.
After getting our room figured out, we headed to Downtown Disney for dinner. You would have thought the tram was an actual ride, the boys were so excited.
We were starving, and the first place we saw once we got off the tram was Naples, so Pizza it was!
They had heaters scattered everywhere, our waitress was a doll, and the food hit the spot. The Lime saw a balloon maker and asked him how much they cost. The guy came to our table and said they only work off of tips but I told him I didn't have any cash. He made the boys swords anyway and hesitantly took my 50 cents. Something is better than nothing, right? LaVor says no :)
We went to the huge Disney store and literally a minute after we walked in, our neighbors and friends from school came over to say hi. It was the first time at Disneyland for their girls and everyone was squealing with excitement.
We stopped to see the Ridemakerz store and the Lego store, both of which would have kept Doodlebug occupied all night.
It didn't take long for everyone to settle down and fall asleep once we got back to the hotel room. The boys shared a bed and slept like babies all night. Doodlebug usually wakes up at the drop of a hat but he slept through me getting up, showering, and running my hair dryer. We finally had to wake him up and get the day of fun and excitement started!
My niece sent her little Flat Stanley project to us and it got to join in on all the fun!
The park was fairly empty so we literally walked on to Pirates of the Caribbean. I showed the boys a YouTube video of it a few weeks ago but The Lime said it didn't prepare him for what it'd be like. He loved it (and ended up going on it at least 2 more times) but Doodlebug hated the dips and darkness. He hid in my lap the entire ride.
After that, LaVor took The Lime to Thunder Mountain and Space Mountain while Doodlebug and I went to Fantasyland.
We met up as soon as Doodlebug and I got off Astro Orbiter (he hated it and I don't blame him...not my favorite) and immediately got in line for Buzz Lightyear Astro Blasters. Everyone would have enjoyed that but someone (The Lime) is a sore loser and was mad that LaVor beat him.
We didn't know that you had to pre-register for the Jedi training so we quickly ate lunch and sat in the audience, ready for the show to start. The Lime's little heart sank when he saw all the kids walk over from the Star Wars Launch Bay. But now we know for next time!
Since we were in the area, Autopia was the next ride on our list. And it ranked #2 on The Lime's favorite list.
I've never been on the submarines and this trip was no different. The line was continuously long (even during parades) and so we put that one on our "next time" list, too.
But Small World was calling our name! I liked how they threw in some of the Disney characters into the mix with the usual 1960's characters.
I also loved, and never thought of this, how all of the characters are in white at the end. It reminded me of my first time at the temple and being told that one of the reasons we all wear white is because it makes us equal. Nobody knows who is a bishop, or a lawyer, or a dishwasher. We're all the same and I felt that way at the end of Small World. We are all Heavenly Father's children!
We were all craving a sweet treat by now so back to Main Street we headed. You can't go to Disneyland without getting ice cream at Gibson Girl.
While we were in the area, it was only natural to stop in the fire station.
Since Doodlebug deemed every ride "scary" thus far, we thought he might enjoy the Jungle Boat Ride.
He wasn't jumping for joy but he also didn't hide in my chest, either. The guide though...yikes! Why are they always so awkward?
I wanted to take The Lime on the Haunted Mansion but didn't think Doodlebug would do very well on it. He and LaVor hung out in New Orleans Square and watched a mama duck waddle around with her babies trailing behind.
Apparently it was too much for The Lime, too. The stinker said it was one of his least favorites! He'll come around, I know it.
We took a breather before Doodlebug and I headed back to the hotel to grab his blanket and our jackets. When we got back, I took The Lime on Indiana Jones while LaVor stayed with napping Doodlebug (he just needed his nigh-night).
We quickly went on Pirates one last time before Doodlebug woke up and then it was time for dinner. We decided on River Belle Terrace and were pleasantly surprised when they took our name for the wait list, they asked if there were any allergies. It's always a concern for us when eating out that we make sure The Lime isn't exposed to anything that'll give him a reaction but it was comforting to know they were just as concerned.
Our hope was to finish dinner in time for the first show of the Main Street Electrical Parade but as we were headed that direction, a voice came over the loud speaker and said the parade route was filled to the max. So what else could we do except go on Autopia again? Except Doodlebug didn't want to so he ran around while I waited and LaVor and Dieter had one last driving session.
We were stuck on that side of the park, and we hadn't bought anything for the boys yet, so we got them some necklaces (that have an on/off switch so they last longer than a night!).
We did want to catch the fireworks so we parked it right in front of the castle...except the trees were blocking our view. So we moved closer to the Matterhorn and got a better glimpse at the magic. Because Disneyland fireworks are just that...magic!
We tried convincing The Lime to go on one more ride since we were only staying one day and wanted to get every ounce of fun out of the park that we could. But he was pooped and amazingly did awesome the whole day with waiting in lines and walking a ton. So we snagged a Disney employee to take our photo in front of the castle and called it a night.
I lied. We had one last thing to do...
You can't go to Disneyland and NOT buy a churro! So stinkin' good.
Our original plan was to visit with friends on Saturday but plans changed so we had a few hours to kill before we needed to head home.
We can never pass up an opportunity to try a new doughnut spot and LaVor found a winner! M&M Donuts on West Katella was amazing! It was about 10:00 when we arrived, and there wasn't a whole lot to choose from, but what we did get was spot on. I picked a raised doughnut with vanilla frosting and topped with coconut, The Lime got a sprinkle, Doodlebug got a chocolate old fashioned, and LaVor got a plain glaze. He read they were known for their blueberry but we didn't see any in the display case. I asked if there were any in the back and there were! And they were warm! We ordered one and ended up going back for two more. And we will definitely be back for more doughnuts whenever we're in the area.
Since we were in the area, we decided to stop by Angel Stadium and see what their grounds were like.
The Lime was especially fond of the field and LaVor and I got a kick out of the hat's size.
Had the Dodgers not had a 1:00 game, we would have gone there too but instead we visited Pink's Hot Dogs for lunch.
Driving there, we went "above Olympic" (line from Clueless) and there was a definite difference from above to below. We caught a glimpse of the Hollywood sign, adorable houses, lots of Jewish people, and the CNN building. I'm sure we passed more but those are the things that stood out.
With full bellies and empty bladders, we hopped on Highway 101 and headed out of town.
It was a quick three days but they were memorable and I'm glad we were able to make them happen.
(I'm already itching for another trip down south so I can see all of the places my great grandpa worked/built!)
Wednesday, April 19, 2017
Tuesday, March 28, 2017
My Birthday
It started out like any other day; got up, got ready, got the boys ready, dropped The Lime off at school and then I had nothing to do until 12:00 (nap time for Doodlebug). So, my partner in crime and I went to Deseret Industries and walked around for 2 hours!!!! I made sure the iTouch was charged, he watched it peacefully in the cart (yup, I let him watch it for most of that time to ensure I had a quiet shopping experience), and I browsed the entire store.
I thought I found a cute top and pair of shorts but the top was too small and the shorts too big. Then I had another top in my cart that I decided to put back. I didn't end up buying anything but just being able to look around for that long was a treat in and of itself.
On the way home, we stopped at Nordstrom Rack and Marshalls for more browsing.
I didn't feel like making lunch so we snuck through the drive-thru and got my guilty pleasure Original Chicken Sandwich & onion rings from Burger King. Doodlebug and I shared a sandwich since I knew we'd be going out to dinner, too.
Doodlebug went down for a nap and I got to work making my cake. It's been an annual tradition to have a rainbow chip or Funfetti birthday cake, and Raleys offers you a free cake mix for your birthday, so Funfetti it was. My original idea was for more of a rainbow look but it ended up more unicorn. Oh well, it tasted good.
Before I knew it, it was time to get The Lime from school. Shortly after, my friend, Selena, and her kids stopped by to sing to me and shower me with gifts and cards. One of the boys made me three cards, bless his heart. She warned me that if I didn't like my present, I could return it and her feelings wouldn't be hurt. As soon as I opened it, I wrote her a note and told her she was on crack for even thinking I might want to return it! It's so darling.
LaVor was able to come home early from work and we headed to Spaghetti Factory for dinner. We used to eat there all the time when we were dating but have only been 3 times since we moved 4 years ago (and it's so close!). Everyone enjoyed it, it hit the spot, AND we got to sit in the trolley! So fun.
We came back home, opened presents, sang "Happy Birthday" and dug into the unicorn cake.
It was a sweet day and the next year looks to be promising, too.
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Friday, March 24, 2017
"The War Goes On"
The April issue of The Ensign has been published and I especially enjoyed the article titled "The War Goes On."
It pointed out a lot of things I had never really thought about yet they make so much sense. I thought the easiest way to do this would be to copy the article and add my thoughts along the way.
"Anyone who follows international news will agree that we live in a time of 'wars and rumors of wars' (D&C 45:26). Fortunately, everyone on earth is a war veteran. We have been battling the hosts of evil in an ongoing war that began in the premortal sphere before we were born.
Because we had not yet received physical bodies, we fought the War in Heaven without swords, guns, or bombs. But the fighting was just as intense as any modern war, and there were billions of casualties.
The premortal war was fought with words, ideas, debate, and persuasion (see Revelation 12:7–9, 11). Satan’s strategy was to frighten people. He knew that fear is the best way to destroy faith (so much fear about EVERYTHING nowadays). He may have used arguments like these: “It’s too hard.” “It’s impossible to make it back clean.” “There’s too much risk.” “How do you know you can trust Jesus Christ?” He was very jealous of the Savior.
Thankfully, God’s plan triumphed over Satan’s lies. God’s plan involved moral agency for mankind and a great sacrifice. Jehovah, known to us as Jesus Christ, volunteered to be that sacrifice—to suffer for all our sins. He was willing to lay down His life for His brothers and sisters so that those who repented could come back clean and eventually become like their Heavenly Father. (See Moses 4:1–4; Abraham 3:27.)
The other advantage that helped Jehovah win the hearts of God’s children was the powerful testimonies borne by His supporters, led by Michael, the archangel (see Revelation 12:7, 11; D&C 107:54). In premortality, Adam was called Michael, and Satan was called Lucifer, which means the “lightbearer (I had no clue!)." That may seem like a strange name for the prince of darkness (see Moses 7:26), but the scriptures teach that Satan was “an angel of God who was in authority in the presence of God” before he fell (see D&C 76:25–28).
How could a spirit with so much knowledge and experience fall so far? It was because of his pride (In my opinion, pride is the source of most of the contentions of the world.) . Lucifer rebelled against our Father in Heaven because he wanted God’s kingdom for himself.
In his classic talk “Beware of Pride,” President Ezra Taft Benson (1899–1994) taught that Lucifer “wished to be honored above all others” and that “his prideful desire was to dethrone God.” You have heard too that Satan wanted to destroy man’s agency, but that was not the only reason he fell out of favor. He was cast out of heaven for rebellion against the Father and the Son (see D&C 76:25; Moses 4:3).
Why did you and I fight against the devil? We fought out of loyalty. We loved and supported our Father in Heaven. We wanted to become like Him. Lucifer had a different goal. He wanted to replace the Father (see Isaiah 14:12–14; 2 Nephi 24:12–14). Imagine how Satan’s betrayal hurt our Heavenly Parents (I believe that Heavenly Father loves Satan, just as a parent on earth loves their child despite the choices they make. But that doesn't mean they condone those choices!). In the scriptures, we read that “the heavens wept over him” (D&C 76:26).
After a heated campaign, Michael and his armies prevailed. Two-thirds of the heavenly hosts chose to follow the Father (see D&C 29:36). Satan and his followers were cast out of heaven, but they were not sent immediately to outer darkness. First, they were sent to this earth (see Revelation 12:7–9), where Jesus Christ was to be born and where His atoning sacrifice would be carried out.
Why were Satan’s hosts allowed to come to earth? They came to provide opposition for those who are being tested here (see 2 Nephi 2:11). Will they eventually be cast into outer darkness? Yes. After the Millennium, Satan and his hosts will be cast out forever.
Satan knows that his days are numbered. At the Second Coming of Jesus, Satan and his angels will be bound for 1,000 years (see Revelation 20:1–3; 1 Nephi 22:26; D&C 101:28). As that deadline approaches, the forces of evil are fighting desperately to capture as many souls as they can (makes sense as to why things are the way they are.).
John the Revelator was shown the War in Heaven as part of a grand vision. He was shown how Satan was cast down to earth to tempt mankind. This was John’s reaction: “Woe to the inhabiters of the earth and of the sea! for the devil is come down unto you, having great wrath, because he knoweth that he hath but a short time” (Revelation 12:12).
So how does Satan spend his days, knowing he has no time to lose? The Apostle Peter wrote that “the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour” (1 Peter 5:8).
What motivates Satan? He will never have a body, he will never have a wife or a family, and he will never have a fulness of joy, so he wants to make all men and women “miserable like unto himself (If you think about it, how many "sins" involve the body? It's because Satan doesn't have one but wants us to harm ours.)” (2 Nephi 2:27).
The devil targets all men, but especially those who have the most potential for eternal happiness. He is clearly jealous of anyone who is on the pathway to exaltation. The scriptures teach that Satan “maketh war with the saints of God, and encompasseth them round about” (D&C 76:29).
The war that began in heaven continues to this day. In fact, the battle is heating up as the Saints prepare for the return of the Savior.
President Brigham Young (1801–77) prophesied “that the Church would spread, prosper, grow and extend, and that in proportion to the spread of the Gospel among the nations of the earth, so would the power of Satan rise.”
I think all of us would agree that this prophecy is being fulfilled as we watch evil infiltrate the societies of the world. President Young taught that we need to study the enemy’s tactics in order to defeat him. I share four of Satan’s proven strategies and some ideas on how to resist them.
Satan’s Strategies
1. Temptation. The devil is brazen when it comes to putting wicked ideas into our minds. The Book of Mormon teaches that Satan whispers unclean and unkind thoughts and sows thoughts of doubt. He nags us to act on addictive urges and to entertain selfishness and greed. He doesn’t want us to recognize where these ideas are coming from, so he whispers, “I am no devil, for there is none” (2 Nephi 28:22).
How can we resist this direct temptation? One of the most effective tools is to simply send Satan away. That’s what Jesus would do.
The New Testament account of the Savior on the mount of temptations is instructive. After each temptation the devil presented to Him, Jesus used a two-step defensive technique: first, He ordered Satan to leave; then He quoted scripture.
Let me give you an example: “Get thee hence, Satan,” commanded Jesus, “for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve” (Matthew 4:10). The next verse records, “Then the devil leaveth him, and, behold, angels came and ministered unto him” (Matthew 4:11). The Savior’s defense was very effective!
The biography of President Heber J. Grant (1856–1945) gives insight into how President Grant, as a young man, resisted the devil. When President Grant recognized that Satan was whispering to him, trying to plant doubts in his heart, he simply said out loud, “Mr. Devil, shut up (love this!).”
You have the right to tell Satan to leave when you are confronted with temptation. The scriptures teach, “Resist the devil, and he will flee from you” (James 4:7).
The other part of the Savior’s defense was to quote scripture. There is great power in memorizing scripture, as Jesus did. Scriptural verses can become an arsenal of spiritual ammunition.
When you are tempted, you can recite commandments such as “Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy,” “Love your enemies,” or “Let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly” (Exodus 20:8; Luke 6:27; D&C 121:45). Scripture power not only intimidates Satan, but it also brings the Spirit into your heart, reassures you, and fortifies you against temptation.
2. Lies and deception. The scriptures reveal that Satan is “the father of lies” (2 Nephi 9:9). Don’t believe him when he whispers messages such as “You never do anything right,” “You are too sinful to be forgiven,” “You will never change,” “No one cares about you,” and “You have no talents.”
Another of his oft-used lies is the following: “You need to try everything at least once—just to gain experience. One time won’t hurt you.” The dirty little secret that he doesn’t want you to know is that sin is addictive.
Another effective lie that Satan will try on you is this: “Everyone else is doing it. It’s OK.” It’s not OK! So tell the devil that you don’t want to go to the telestial kingdom—even if everyone else is going there. (I have notes in my scriptures from a fireside I attended as a youth. It says: O.N.E. - Once won't hurt, Nobody will know, Everybody's doing it.)
It pointed out a lot of things I had never really thought about yet they make so much sense. I thought the easiest way to do this would be to copy the article and add my thoughts along the way.
"Anyone who follows international news will agree that we live in a time of 'wars and rumors of wars' (D&C 45:26). Fortunately, everyone on earth is a war veteran. We have been battling the hosts of evil in an ongoing war that began in the premortal sphere before we were born.
Because we had not yet received physical bodies, we fought the War in Heaven without swords, guns, or bombs. But the fighting was just as intense as any modern war, and there were billions of casualties.
The premortal war was fought with words, ideas, debate, and persuasion (see Revelation 12:7–9, 11). Satan’s strategy was to frighten people. He knew that fear is the best way to destroy faith (so much fear about EVERYTHING nowadays). He may have used arguments like these: “It’s too hard.” “It’s impossible to make it back clean.” “There’s too much risk.” “How do you know you can trust Jesus Christ?” He was very jealous of the Savior.
Thankfully, God’s plan triumphed over Satan’s lies. God’s plan involved moral agency for mankind and a great sacrifice. Jehovah, known to us as Jesus Christ, volunteered to be that sacrifice—to suffer for all our sins. He was willing to lay down His life for His brothers and sisters so that those who repented could come back clean and eventually become like their Heavenly Father. (See Moses 4:1–4; Abraham 3:27.)
The other advantage that helped Jehovah win the hearts of God’s children was the powerful testimonies borne by His supporters, led by Michael, the archangel (see Revelation 12:7, 11; D&C 107:54). In premortality, Adam was called Michael, and Satan was called Lucifer, which means the “lightbearer (I had no clue!)." That may seem like a strange name for the prince of darkness (see Moses 7:26), but the scriptures teach that Satan was “an angel of God who was in authority in the presence of God” before he fell (see D&C 76:25–28).
How could a spirit with so much knowledge and experience fall so far? It was because of his pride (In my opinion, pride is the source of most of the contentions of the world.) . Lucifer rebelled against our Father in Heaven because he wanted God’s kingdom for himself.
In his classic talk “Beware of Pride,” President Ezra Taft Benson (1899–1994) taught that Lucifer “wished to be honored above all others” and that “his prideful desire was to dethrone God.” You have heard too that Satan wanted to destroy man’s agency, but that was not the only reason he fell out of favor. He was cast out of heaven for rebellion against the Father and the Son (see D&C 76:25; Moses 4:3).
Why did you and I fight against the devil? We fought out of loyalty. We loved and supported our Father in Heaven. We wanted to become like Him. Lucifer had a different goal. He wanted to replace the Father (see Isaiah 14:12–14; 2 Nephi 24:12–14). Imagine how Satan’s betrayal hurt our Heavenly Parents (I believe that Heavenly Father loves Satan, just as a parent on earth loves their child despite the choices they make. But that doesn't mean they condone those choices!). In the scriptures, we read that “the heavens wept over him” (D&C 76:26).
After a heated campaign, Michael and his armies prevailed. Two-thirds of the heavenly hosts chose to follow the Father (see D&C 29:36). Satan and his followers were cast out of heaven, but they were not sent immediately to outer darkness. First, they were sent to this earth (see Revelation 12:7–9), where Jesus Christ was to be born and where His atoning sacrifice would be carried out.
Why were Satan’s hosts allowed to come to earth? They came to provide opposition for those who are being tested here (see 2 Nephi 2:11). Will they eventually be cast into outer darkness? Yes. After the Millennium, Satan and his hosts will be cast out forever.
Satan knows that his days are numbered. At the Second Coming of Jesus, Satan and his angels will be bound for 1,000 years (see Revelation 20:1–3; 1 Nephi 22:26; D&C 101:28). As that deadline approaches, the forces of evil are fighting desperately to capture as many souls as they can (makes sense as to why things are the way they are.).
John the Revelator was shown the War in Heaven as part of a grand vision. He was shown how Satan was cast down to earth to tempt mankind. This was John’s reaction: “Woe to the inhabiters of the earth and of the sea! for the devil is come down unto you, having great wrath, because he knoweth that he hath but a short time” (Revelation 12:12).
So how does Satan spend his days, knowing he has no time to lose? The Apostle Peter wrote that “the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour” (1 Peter 5:8).
What motivates Satan? He will never have a body, he will never have a wife or a family, and he will never have a fulness of joy, so he wants to make all men and women “miserable like unto himself (If you think about it, how many "sins" involve the body? It's because Satan doesn't have one but wants us to harm ours.)” (2 Nephi 2:27).
The devil targets all men, but especially those who have the most potential for eternal happiness. He is clearly jealous of anyone who is on the pathway to exaltation. The scriptures teach that Satan “maketh war with the saints of God, and encompasseth them round about” (D&C 76:29).
The war that began in heaven continues to this day. In fact, the battle is heating up as the Saints prepare for the return of the Savior.
President Brigham Young (1801–77) prophesied “that the Church would spread, prosper, grow and extend, and that in proportion to the spread of the Gospel among the nations of the earth, so would the power of Satan rise.”
I think all of us would agree that this prophecy is being fulfilled as we watch evil infiltrate the societies of the world. President Young taught that we need to study the enemy’s tactics in order to defeat him. I share four of Satan’s proven strategies and some ideas on how to resist them.
Satan’s Strategies
1. Temptation. The devil is brazen when it comes to putting wicked ideas into our minds. The Book of Mormon teaches that Satan whispers unclean and unkind thoughts and sows thoughts of doubt. He nags us to act on addictive urges and to entertain selfishness and greed. He doesn’t want us to recognize where these ideas are coming from, so he whispers, “I am no devil, for there is none” (2 Nephi 28:22).
How can we resist this direct temptation? One of the most effective tools is to simply send Satan away. That’s what Jesus would do.
The New Testament account of the Savior on the mount of temptations is instructive. After each temptation the devil presented to Him, Jesus used a two-step defensive technique: first, He ordered Satan to leave; then He quoted scripture.
Let me give you an example: “Get thee hence, Satan,” commanded Jesus, “for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve” (Matthew 4:10). The next verse records, “Then the devil leaveth him, and, behold, angels came and ministered unto him” (Matthew 4:11). The Savior’s defense was very effective!
The biography of President Heber J. Grant (1856–1945) gives insight into how President Grant, as a young man, resisted the devil. When President Grant recognized that Satan was whispering to him, trying to plant doubts in his heart, he simply said out loud, “Mr. Devil, shut up (love this!).”
You have the right to tell Satan to leave when you are confronted with temptation. The scriptures teach, “Resist the devil, and he will flee from you” (James 4:7).
The other part of the Savior’s defense was to quote scripture. There is great power in memorizing scripture, as Jesus did. Scriptural verses can become an arsenal of spiritual ammunition.
When you are tempted, you can recite commandments such as “Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy,” “Love your enemies,” or “Let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly” (Exodus 20:8; Luke 6:27; D&C 121:45). Scripture power not only intimidates Satan, but it also brings the Spirit into your heart, reassures you, and fortifies you against temptation.
2. Lies and deception. The scriptures reveal that Satan is “the father of lies” (2 Nephi 9:9). Don’t believe him when he whispers messages such as “You never do anything right,” “You are too sinful to be forgiven,” “You will never change,” “No one cares about you,” and “You have no talents.”
Another of his oft-used lies is the following: “You need to try everything at least once—just to gain experience. One time won’t hurt you.” The dirty little secret that he doesn’t want you to know is that sin is addictive.
Another effective lie that Satan will try on you is this: “Everyone else is doing it. It’s OK.” It’s not OK! So tell the devil that you don’t want to go to the telestial kingdom—even if everyone else is going there. (I have notes in my scriptures from a fireside I attended as a youth. It says: O.N.E. - Once won't hurt, Nobody will know, Everybody's doing it.)
Although Satan will lie to you, you can count on the Spirit to tell you the truth. That’s why the gift of the Holy Ghost is so essential.
The devil has been called “the great deceiver.” He attempts to counterfeit every true principle the Lord presents.
Remember, counterfeits are not the same as opposites. The opposite of white is black, but a counterfeit for white might be off-white or gray. Counterfeits bear a resemblance to the real thing in order to deceive unsuspecting people. They are a twisted version of something good, and just like counterfeit money, they are worthless. Let me illustrate.
One of Satan’s counterfeits for faith is superstition. His counterfeit for love is lust. He counterfeits the priesthood by introducing priestcraft, and he imitates God’s miracles by means of sorcery.
Marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God, but same-sex marriage is only a counterfeit. It brings neither posterity nor exaltation. Although his imitations deceive many people, they are not the real thing. They cannot bring lasting happiness.
God warned us about counterfeits in the Doctrine and Covenants. He said, “That which doth not edify is not of God, and is darkness” (D&C 50:23).
3. Contention. Satan is the father of contention. The Savior teaches, “He stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another” (3 Nephi 11:29).
The devil has learned from centuries of experience that where there is contention, the Spirit of the Lord will depart. Ever since he convinced Cain to kill Abel, Satan has influenced siblings to quarrel. He also stirs up problems in marriages, among ward members, and between missionary companions. He delights in seeing good people argue. He tries to start family arguments right before church on Sunday (So, we're not the only ones?!), right before family home evening on Monday night , and whenever a couple plans to attend a temple session. His timing is predictable.
When there is contention in your home or workplace, immediately stop whatever you are doing and seek to make peace. It doesn’t matter who started it.
Contention often begins with faultfinding. Joseph Smith taught that “the devil flatters us that we are very righteous, when we are feeding on the faults of others.” When you think about it, self-righteousness is just a counterfeit for real righteousness.
Satan loves to spread contention in the Church. He specializes in pointing out the faults of Church leaders. Joseph Smith warned the Saints that the beginning step to apostasy is to lose confidence in the leaders of the Church.
Almost all anti-Mormon literature is based on lies about the character of Joseph Smith. The enemy works hard to discredit Joseph because the message of the Restoration hangs on the Prophet’s account of what happened in the Sacred Grove. The devil is working harder today than ever before to make members question their testimonies of the Restoration.
In the early days of our dispensation, many priesthood brethren, to their regret, did not stay loyal to the Prophet. One of them was Lyman E. Johnson, who was excommunicated for unrighteous conduct. He later lamented having left the Church: “I would suffer my right hand to be cut off, if I could believe it again. Then I was full of joy and gladness. My dreams were pleasant. When I awoke in the morning my spirit was cheerful. I was happy by day and by night, full of peace and joy and thanksgiving. But now it is darkness, pain, sorrow, misery in the extreme. I have never since seen a happy moment.”
Think about those words. They stand as a warning to all Church members.
I am a convert to the Church. I was baptized when I was a 23-year-old young single adult attending medical school in Arizona, USA. I know firsthand how Satan works on investigators to confuse them and discourage them when they are seeking truth.
All during my youth, I had watched the examples of Latter-day Saint friends. I was impressed with the way they conducted their lives. I made the decision to learn more about the Church, but I did not want to tell anyone I was studying Mormonism. To avoid pressure from my friends, I decided to make my search a private investigation.
This was many years before the internet, so I went to the public library. I found a copy of the Book of Mormon and a book called A Marvelous Work and a Wonder, by Elder LeGrand Richards (1886–1983) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. I began to read these books with great desire, and I found them inspiring.
While my spirit was yearning to learn more, Satan began to whisper in my ear. He told me that in order to be completely objective, I needed to read what was written by the critics of the Church also. I went back to the public library and began to look around. Sure enough, I found a book that discredited the Prophet Joseph.
Reading this anti-Mormon book confused me. I lost that sweet spirit and influence that had guided my investigation (I have a hard time believing people when they said they felt the Spirit while reading anti-Mormon literature.). I became frustrated and was about to abandon my search for truth. I was praying for an answer while reading anti-Mormon literature!
To my surprise, I received a phone call from a high school friend who was attending Brigham Young University. She invited me to come visit her in Utah, promising that I would love the scenic trip. She had no idea that I was secretly studying about her Church.
I accepted her invitation. My friend suggested that we go to Salt Lake City to visit Temple Square. She was surprised by my enthusiastic response. She had no idea how interested I was to learn the truth about Joseph Smith and the Restoration.
The sister missionaries on Temple Square were very helpful. Without knowing it, they answered many of my questions. Their testimonies influenced me to “doubt [my] doubts,” and my faith began to grow. The power of a heartfelt testimony cannot be overestimated.
My friend also shared her testimony with me and invited me to pray and ask God if the Church was true. On the long drive back to Arizona, I began to pray with faith—for the first time “with a sincere heart, with real intent” (Moroni 10:4). At some point on that trip, it seemed that my whole car lit up with light. I learned for myself that light can dispel darkness.
After I had decided to be baptized, the devil put up a final struggle (I have never felt Satan work so strongly on me as I did the night before I took out my endowments.). He worked on my family, who did everything in their power to discourage me, and they refused to attend my baptism.
I was baptized anyway, and gradually their hearts were softened. They began to help me research my family history. A few years later, I baptized my younger brother. The friend who invited me to visit her in Utah is now my wife.
4. Discouragement. Satan effectively uses this tool on the most faithful Saints when all else fails (I see it everywhere! Women aren't good enough mothers, husbands don't bring home enough money, children didn't make the basketball team, etc.). For me, when I begin to feel discouraged, it helps me just to recognize who is trying to get me down. This makes me mad enough to cheer up—just to spite the devil.
Several years ago, President Benson gave a talk called “Do Not Despair.” In that insightful talk, he warned, “Satan is increasingly striving to overcome the Saints with despair, discouragement, despondency, and depression.” President Benson urged Church members to be on guard, and he gave 12 realistic suggestions for fighting discouragement.
His suggestions include serving others; working hard and avoiding idleness; practicing good health habits, which include exercising and eating foods in their natural state; seeking a priesthood blessing; listening to inspiring music; counting your blessings; and setting goals. And above all, as the scriptures teach, we are to pray always so we can conquer Satan (see D&C 10:5).
Satan trembles when he sees the weakest saint upon his knees.
It is important to know that there are limits to the power of evil. The Godhead sets those limits, and Satan is not allowed to cross them. For example, the scriptures assure us that “power is not given unto Satan to tempt little children” (D&C 29:47).
Another significant limitation is that Satan does not know our thoughts unless we tell him (didn't know this!). The Lord explained, “There is none else save God that knowest thy thoughts and the intents of thy heart” (D&C 6:16).
Perhaps this is why the Lord has given us commandments such as “Do not murmur” (D&C 9:6) and “Thou shalt not speak evil of thy neighbor” (D&C 42:27). If you can learn to bridle your tongue (see James 1:26), you won’t end up giving too much information to the devil. When he hears murmuring, complaining, and criticizing, he takes careful notes. Your negative words expose your weaknesses to the enemy.
I have good news for you. The armies of God are larger than the armies of Lucifer. You may look around and think to yourself, “The world is becoming more and more wicked. Satan must be winning the war.” Don’t be fooled. The truth is, we outnumber the enemy. Remember, two-thirds of God’s children chose the Father’s plan.
Brothers and sisters, make sure you are fighting on the Lord’s side. Make sure you are carrying the sword of the Spirit.
It is my prayer that at the end of your lives, you can say with the Apostle Paul, “I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith” (2 Timothy 4:7)."
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Thursday, March 23, 2017
Opening Day & First 2 Games
We look forward to Opening Day for little league because then it means we can start playing games. We don't actually look forward to the actual Opening Day because it's chaos.
I believe I heard there were roughly 60 teams this year, with at least 10 players per team. That's over 600 players plus their families (granted, there are a lot of families that have more than one child playing). Nevertheless, we're grateful we live within walking distance of the fields and can come and go as we please without fighting the horrendous crowds and traffic.
We did manage to get a spot right against the field so I could capture a few shots of The Lime and his team, the Burlington Bees.
While we waited for the teams to line up, I made small talk with the kids on the other side of the fence (and LaVor made fun of me the whole time...even nicknamed me "The Crazy Lady") and we ate oranges.
They announced all the teams, the members of the board, and acknowledged the champions from last year. Before we knew it, "Opening Day" was over and we had the rest of the day to ourselves.
Last week, The Lime had his first two games AND he got to be catcher during both games! He loves playing this position and I think it set the bar for his confidence this season.
At Saturday's game, I overheard a mom say, "Wow! That kid looks like a real catcher! He doesn't even have knee savers on!" I hope the coach continues to work with The Lime and allows him to play catcher throughout the season.
It's been a blast watching The Lime play. This year is polar opposite of last, where I had to beg him to get ready for practice and games. It's quite enjoyable to watch when he's having so much fun out there.
Meanwhile, while he's playing, Doodlebug is zipping along on his scooter, making new friends, or petting dogs. LaVor snacks in the bleachers :)
We're all having a blast at the ole' ball game!
I believe I heard there were roughly 60 teams this year, with at least 10 players per team. That's over 600 players plus their families (granted, there are a lot of families that have more than one child playing). Nevertheless, we're grateful we live within walking distance of the fields and can come and go as we please without fighting the horrendous crowds and traffic.
We did manage to get a spot right against the field so I could capture a few shots of The Lime and his team, the Burlington Bees.
While we waited for the teams to line up, I made small talk with the kids on the other side of the fence (and LaVor made fun of me the whole time...even nicknamed me "The Crazy Lady") and we ate oranges.
They announced all the teams, the members of the board, and acknowledged the champions from last year. Before we knew it, "Opening Day" was over and we had the rest of the day to ourselves.
Last week, The Lime had his first two games AND he got to be catcher during both games! He loves playing this position and I think it set the bar for his confidence this season.
| His little friend Cohen was batting. |
At Saturday's game, I overheard a mom say, "Wow! That kid looks like a real catcher! He doesn't even have knee savers on!" I hope the coach continues to work with The Lime and allows him to play catcher throughout the season.
It's been a blast watching The Lime play. This year is polar opposite of last, where I had to beg him to get ready for practice and games. It's quite enjoyable to watch when he's having so much fun out there.
| When he's bored, he chews on his glove |
Meanwhile, while he's playing, Doodlebug is zipping along on his scooter, making new friends, or petting dogs. LaVor snacks in the bleachers :)
We're all having a blast at the ole' ball game!
Thursday, March 9, 2017
Fun Run
The Lime stayed home yesterday with bad allergies (although we originally thought it was a cold) but was determined to go back to school today for their Fun Run.
He was able to gather $160 worth of donations from family that earned his class a wacky hair and pajama day. The Lime didn't participate in either one :P
The staff from Apex got the students pumped up and ready to run. The Lime said he especially liked the girl with the microphone.
Doodlebug and I found a spot in the center of the field and were ready to snap photos of the kids (I'm one of the photographer parents for The Lime's class).
The race started and the kids were off in full force!
The Lime started coughing so I encouraged him to walk, since this wasn't necessarily a race. But he wanted to keep up with his friends so he kept on going.
There was a break in the rain and it actually ended up being pretty warm. So warm that the water intended for drinking was used for pouring on heads instead.
Several kids were able to run over 30 laps and The Lime finished 26 (or was it 29?). At the end of the event, one of the teachers got to pie the principal. That was probably the highlight of the whole day!
I was glad The Lime felt well enough to participate and that he received such great support from our family. I'd call the event a success!
He was able to gather $160 worth of donations from family that earned his class a wacky hair and pajama day. The Lime didn't participate in either one :P
The staff from Apex got the students pumped up and ready to run. The Lime said he especially liked the girl with the microphone.
Doodlebug and I found a spot in the center of the field and were ready to snap photos of the kids (I'm one of the photographer parents for The Lime's class).
The race started and the kids were off in full force!
The Lime started coughing so I encouraged him to walk, since this wasn't necessarily a race. But he wanted to keep up with his friends so he kept on going.
There was a break in the rain and it actually ended up being pretty warm. So warm that the water intended for drinking was used for pouring on heads instead.
Several kids were able to run over 30 laps and The Lime finished 26 (or was it 29?). At the end of the event, one of the teachers got to pie the principal. That was probably the highlight of the whole day!
I was glad The Lime felt well enough to participate and that he received such great support from our family. I'd call the event a success!
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Tuesday, February 28, 2017
Birthday Time!
I heard the shower turn on this morning and realized it was a new day...LaVor's birthday to be exact!
He kissed me goodbye, I wished him a happy birthday, and that's when it all started on my end.
After Doodlebug and I dropped The Lime off at school, we went to our baby-sitting gig and then straight to the grocery store to pick up the ingredients for the cake. Then we swung by Leatherby's to grab some Toasted Almond ice cream, since you can't find the darn flavor in grocery stores. Lastly, we grabbed a handful of balloons at the Dollar Store before heading home.
I put Doodlebug down for a nap and went to work. Cakes went in the oven, coconut pecan frosting was made on the stove, and I whipped the buttercream up with my mixer. I normally make a small sign and put it on the table. But The Lime got a large roll of paper for Christmas, and it still hasn't been used, so I made an extra large sign for our main man. I wrapped the presents, grabbed the cards from my drawer, and we were ready to celebrate!
As soon as LaVor walked through the door, we all shouted, "Happy Birthday!" Even little Doodlebug, who is improving his words each day, managed to say it.
LaVor got to choose where we went to dinner and we were thrilled when we pulled into In N Out's parking lot!
When we got home, LaVor Skyped with his parents while he opened their card and gift; another gift card to Men's Wearhouse so he can buy a new pair of slacks.
Then we lit some candles, sang "Happy Birthday", and dug into the delicious cake.
LaVor opened our gifts (a Yeti rambler and new church shirt to go with his new slacks) next.
And then it was time for bed. Because that's what happens when you're 2 years shy of turning 40 :)
We loved celebrating our special guy and are grateful for every second we get to be around him. Since today was the last day of the month and things get crazy at work, he decided to take Friday off instead. We are anxiously awaiting to spend an entire day with him!
He kissed me goodbye, I wished him a happy birthday, and that's when it all started on my end.
After Doodlebug and I dropped The Lime off at school, we went to our baby-sitting gig and then straight to the grocery store to pick up the ingredients for the cake. Then we swung by Leatherby's to grab some Toasted Almond ice cream, since you can't find the darn flavor in grocery stores. Lastly, we grabbed a handful of balloons at the Dollar Store before heading home.
I put Doodlebug down for a nap and went to work. Cakes went in the oven, coconut pecan frosting was made on the stove, and I whipped the buttercream up with my mixer. I normally make a small sign and put it on the table. But The Lime got a large roll of paper for Christmas, and it still hasn't been used, so I made an extra large sign for our main man. I wrapped the presents, grabbed the cards from my drawer, and we were ready to celebrate!
As soon as LaVor walked through the door, we all shouted, "Happy Birthday!" Even little Doodlebug, who is improving his words each day, managed to say it.
LaVor got to choose where we went to dinner and we were thrilled when we pulled into In N Out's parking lot!
When we got home, LaVor Skyped with his parents while he opened their card and gift; another gift card to Men's Wearhouse so he can buy a new pair of slacks.
Then we lit some candles, sang "Happy Birthday", and dug into the delicious cake.
LaVor opened our gifts (a Yeti rambler and new church shirt to go with his new slacks) next.
And then it was time for bed. Because that's what happens when you're 2 years shy of turning 40 :)
We loved celebrating our special guy and are grateful for every second we get to be around him. Since today was the last day of the month and things get crazy at work, he decided to take Friday off instead. We are anxiously awaiting to spend an entire day with him!
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